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Thursday, January 22, 2009

Accept the person for who they are but recognise the need for change

The paradox of being in a relationship. Women often want their other half to accept them for who they are. However, it is the other half's responsibility to see that they continue to grow and be happy. This would include correcting and improving. In other words, trying to change them from what they are to what they should be. This creates a paradox, how can you accept your girlfriend or wife yet cause them to be a better person?
Love, Acceptance. Someone to support them, encourage them, be there for them regardless of success or failure.